Why She’s OK Now

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She’s moved on now and maybe you’re wondering why or how, because it wasn’t that long ago when she wasn’t OK. When she still wanted you back. When she thought about you constantly, but now she barely ever thinks about you. She’s OK now.

She’s OK because she realized life goes on with or without you. She was OK before she met you and she will be OK after you’re gone. That’s life and not everyone is meant to stay. Maybe it took her  longer than expected to move on, but she did. And now she’s perfectly OK.

She’s OK because she realized that there are other people that will appreciate and love her more than you ever did. She knows that there is someone out there that won’t give up on her like you did, and that brings so much joy to her. She took the time to love herself and she realized that she is beautiful inside and out. She now knows that you were never worth the tears. So she’s OK now.

She’s OK because she realized life is too short to not be OK. Not everything will work out for you. We all know this. So when something doesn’t work out for us we shouldn’t sulk and feel bad for ourselves, but we should continue to live our life to the fullest. Don’t waste your precious time on someone who clearly isn’t worth it. She’s OK now.

She’s OK because she realized when one door closes another door opens. She saw this first hand. She realized that she’s OK being alone. That she doesn’t need a guy there all the time. She knows when she stops trying and when she least expects it that maybe a guy will appear in her life, but for now she’s OK with being alone.

She’s OK because she has been let down before and sometimes you get used to the pain. She knows that the pain won’t last forever. She’s done it before, so she’s OK.

She’s OK because when she thinks about you she doesn’t think about all the negative parts, but all the good memories she shared with you and she’s forever grateful for that. She’s OK because she knows how to not be bitter about lost love.

She’s OK because she knows she was the bigger person. She watched you become something she didn’t even recognize. You became so little to her. You turned into a person not worth fighting for right in front of her eyes. So she’s OK now.

“Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.”



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